Sex-Positive- BDSM and Kink Therapy in Texas and Missouri

Celebrating Alternative Lifestyles and Kink Therapy Online in Texas and Missouri

Reunite is a space where your alternative sexuality (kink/fetishes) and non-traditional relationships (open/poly/ENM/swinging) is not just accepted but celebrated. We understand that your lifestyle and desires are as diverse as you are. Our therapy embraces and supports individuals exploring the realms of BDSM, kink, and alternative lifestyles.

Reunite prioritizes being knowledgeable of kink, non-judgmental, and a sex-positive environment where your needs are heard, understood, and respected. Whether you're navigating personal challenges within the BDSM lifestyle or seeking therapy with a therapist who is open-minded about diverse sexual interests, we are here to guide you with compassion and expertise. BDSM, kink, and lifestyle counseling can help you navigate the complexities of alternative relationships and provide support for both individuals and couples.

Reunite’s sex positive practice helps people who engage in alternative lifestyles to have a safe and open space where you can express your desires and concerns without fear of judgment. We believe in the power of consent-focused therapy and utilize the SSC principles (Safe, Sane, and Consensual) where your boundaries are acknowledged and respected throughout your therapeutic journey. Exploring your desires in a sex-positive and affirming space is crucial for personal growth. At Reunite, we believe in promoting an environment where individuals can embrace their unique sexual journeys. If you're interested in learning more about our sex-positive philosophy, you can find additional information on our sex positivity approach here.

If you're seeking a space where your lifestyle is not tolerated but embraced, where your desires are met with understanding, and where your mental health is a priority, then Reunite is here for you. Take the courageous step toward self-discovery, empowerment, and a more fulfilling life. Schedule a session with our compassionate team today. Schedule Today

Unlocking Pleasure: Sex-Positive and Kink Knowledgeable Therapy

Reunite, is a celebratory space to embrace and express your wildest and kinkiest fantasies or fetishes. In your sessions, we'll help you negotiate with your partner(s) on sexual agreements before diving into exploring sexually. We'll discuss effective and safe ways to act on sexual interests and work through any hiccups that come up along the way.

There's a common misconception about kink-aware therapists, as if they engage in or show kinky activities during sessions. That's not true—your sex positive therapy sessions won't involve any nudity or sexual practices, whether it's in the therapy office or online. In your sessions, you and your Reunite therapist can chat openly about your sexual and kink experiences, addressing any feelings that come up during your exploration of kink. Schedule Today

What is Kink? What is a Fetish? What is the Difference?

Curious about kink and wondering what it entails? Kink is an umbrella term encompassing a range of unconventional or alternative sexual practices, interests, and fantasies that fall outside traditional “norms.” For instance, practices like bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, Sadism and Masochism (BDSM) fall under the category of kinks. What is considered kinky varies from person to person; some may view using sex toys as kinky, while others might see it as 'vanilla' or not kinky.

On the other hand, a fetish is something you need as part of your sexual experience. This could involve a specific act, such as having sex in a public setting, degradation, or a focus on an object, like feet or lingerie. Alone or with a partner, a person with a sexual fetish either needs to physically incorporate the fetish into sexual acts or fantasize (think) about the sexual fetish. Experiencing or fantasizing about the fetish is necessary to become sexually aroused, experience sexual pleasure, and achieve orgasm. For individuals with penises, the fetish is required to obtain an erection.

There is overlap between kinks and fetishes, and we understand the confusion. The primary difference between kink and fetishes is need. Kink is something you like to do, and a fetish is something you need for sexual pleasure. Sometimes it can be helpful to label or name sexual interests as a kink or fetish, and at Reunite, we encourage you to express your sexual interests. However, we will follow your lead when it comes to labeling. 

At Reunite, we believe in providing non-judgmental and open-minded support for individuals exploring their sexuality or incorporating it into their relationships. We are here to help you navigate your unique journey, providing a space where you can freely express your desires, explore boundaries, and enhance your overall well-being. Ready to dive into a more fulfilling and authentic experience? Schedule a session for a sex-positive and understanding therapist today. Schedule Today

Common Reasons to Seek Therapy Related to Kink Issues:

  • Navigating sexual boundaries

  • One partner is kinky while the other(s) is/are not

  • Communication challenges

  • Facing stigma from family or society

  • Navigating a complex scene or relationship

  • Seeking education on options and choices in kink relationships

  • Coping with unpleasant experiences from the past

  • Addressing violations of consent

  • Negotiating contracts in kink relationships

  • Negotiating the start of a new kink relationship

What is a knowledgeable and affirming BDSM, Kink, or open relationship therapist?

Many of our clients have an alternative lifestyle or in a non-traditional relationship, and they choose Reunite for therapy to find a therapist who truly “gets it” and experience therapy without judgment. At Reunite, your therapist will go beyond being merely "kink friendly.” Reunite has advanced and up-to-date training specifically focused on non-confirming lifestyles, kink, fetishes, BDSM, and diverse open relationships. Our approach is holistic, combining a gentle yet direct manner with a tailored methodology rooted in well-researched theories and a profound understanding of human connections.

In our collaborative sessions, we will embark on a journey of learning new techniques, encourage in-home exercises, provide readings and other information, and conduct in-session exercises/other activities through talk therapy. Together, we will craft an approach that aligns with your goals and caters to your individual needs. Schedule Today

Kink Relationship Therapy: When One Partner is Kinky and the Other(s) is/are Not

Exploring and understanding Kink and BDSM can empower everyone involved. Within therapy, all partners can jointly establish boundaries and agreements that resonate with the authenticity of their relationship and each person’s authentic self. Being open about your kinks can carry risks, judgements, and exclusion within society. It's crucial to have conversations on how to handle stigmas from society and collectively decide on a relationship dynamic that suits everyone. Kink-focused therapy facilitates these discussions, fostering understanding and strengthening the bonds within the relationship. Schedule Today

Sex-positvity is not just about what you do. It is about embracing who you are.

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